Okay so messed around with the head a bit more and got to 10.1:1 CR with the 0.045" gasket, which I think will work well for the intended application.
I greased up the lifters with molybdenum grease and installed them

I put the head on with new bolts and greased threads and torqued it down to 29ft lbs.

This is where it sits now, I haven't put the rocker assembly in or done the final torque, I think I am going to slacken the bolts off and spend a bit more time getting the head perfectly centred over the block.