(this is me clutching at straws)
Are there any holes in the convoluted tube between the AMM and the throttle body? A crack or wear hole caused by that hose rubbing on another hose due to engine movement over many miles is a known issue. (It looks like it's rubbing on one of the aircon hoses in the video). If there's a hole in that tube, it throws off the actual air flow reading from the AMM, since the engine's sucking extra air through the hole which hasn't passed through the AMM.
I may be wrong, but it looks to me like the car is stalling as the ECU transitions away from relying on the IAC for cold start and and warmup and switching over to running temperature mode.