I replaced the manifold gasket today.
It didn't look anywhere near as bad inside the head or manifold as I was expecting. I assume the reason I was getting oil leaking out was just because the gasket was bad enough to let out any oil spray that came near it, and it must have accumulated over time.
But I could be wrong, happy to hear other opinions
(First picture is looking inside the manifold, second pic is looking inside the head, third pic is the old gasket still sitting on the head)