Well, after a bit of mucking around, (and having also cleaned out the throttle body, which was somewhat mucky), I have finally discovered the cause of all my current woes…
Its a seal, Volvo part number 30778628, I think that it is called an upper inlet tube seal, located at the rear of the engine, and up a bit. Here is a photo of the offender (the rubber bit, not me…..)
I monitored a whole bunch of stuff via VIDA, and noticed that the ECM Boost pressure versus the ECM desired boost pressure were quite at odds with one another, leading me to seek out the culprit on the turbo pressure side of things..
Just for the record, the pressure sensor (which I think is actually differential pressure) for the DPF reads around 13 hPa at idle, and cranks up to a max around 60 ish at higher rpm. Will remeasure once we get 'Eric' all back together again, but I think that these values look OK to me.